Hey, so I am 17 and I just finished high school, I really haven´t dated because I was shy and never tried. Recently I have gained confidence but I need some advice here.

Ok, so I have two girls I´ve been texting and I need you to tell me how to proceed with them:

1. I´ve known this girl for a while but never really got along until a recent vacation , we talked and made jokes a lot in a club. I´ve been talking with her through text, and many of the times we talked she texted first, and she says stuff like, "you make me laugh a lot".
She´s been dating some guy, but I think she´s getting tired of him because he doesn´t ask her to be his gf. So I told her we should go to he movies, she then said "Sounds good, you tell me when"

2. I met this girl for the first time when I was little, then I saw her again in high school and got very pretty, so I talked some times with her and she´s really nice too, in the after party to my graduation I told her I had some pictures of us when we were little I had to give her, she gave me her number and I gave her mine, we texted about unimportant stuff and then the conv went like this:

Me: When do we see each other and so I give you those photos.
Her: That´s right, wnenever you want
Me: This week sounds good? The day that you can, we go for a coffee and we see those photos, I haven´t seen them either and I am curious.
Her: Jaja sounds like a good idea.
Me: Ok, you tell me which day.
Her: Let´s decide on the week if you want.
Me: Ok, let me know the day that you want.


So, I think my problem with both is that I didn´t tell them the precise day. Or is it good that I´m waiting? I would really appreciate some help.
(Tried to make the most accurate translation from spanish to english, but there are some expressions in spanish that I couldn´t translate)

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"End? No, the journey doesn't end here. Death is just another path... One that we all must take." Gandalf

This is great. They're both interested in meeting up with you. I think in general it is expected of the guy to make decisions like this. What day, what time, what venue. I'd say text them both with a time, date and location to meet. If it suits their schedule they will meet you. If it doesn't suit their schedule, suggest another day.

Have fun,

Birdo

Thank you, I will do that, and can someone help or post a link to a thread about what to do when in the actual date, it would really be my first one, so I could really use some help on how to proceed. Thanks.

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"End? No, the journey doesn't end here. Death is just another path... One that we all must take." Gandalf

My advice would be to just text them and tell them the date, time, place etc. Don't mess around looking for guidance from them asking when is good for them. You tell them. Don't make out that you have loads of time for them that they can just choose.

Keep browsing the forum for the date info, their is tonnes of info on here from some pretty clued up guys!