Hello.
This is my first post!
I am a total pua newbie
I have covered most of the theories (Gambler, Mystery, Tao of Badass, Deangello).
But I have almost no field practice.
I must admit, all my my life (now I am 33) I was a total BETA male.
I was obeying to women. When they told me that they are considering to throw me away, I was CRYING and begging NOT to leave me:)
The things are much better now. I have read all the materials. Women no more bossing me around. I have changed my inner believes thus my bodylanguage is looking very dominant (I took president Vladimir Putin bodylanguage as an example, no kidding ).
I am ok looking tall guy.
When I am approaching women, I "know" they are attracted , maybe because I have this dominant bodylanguage and flirting smile. They are smiling to me, qualifying themselves ,grooming they hair. So the begining of the game is very ok.
There is an attraction. But one/two minutes after, they are going away.
The first issue, I have some inner need to brag to women that I am Software Project Manager. I think this is called self qualifying and trying to sell myself. If I am not wrong, this kills attraction. The other issue I have, is that that there is a point that I have nothing interesting to say, I am starting to talk about boring things like asking where do you work ... I think maybe this also kills attraction, maybe not ?
By the way, One thing that I see that when I wear nice shining shoes and elegant shirt I get much more playfull smiles. Does this means that I should not wear my nike shoes anymore
I welcome any suggestion. Thank you

I used to have these issues. It kills attraction. If you have read material, you must know some routines. Choose and adapt (ADAPT do not copy, you re not a parrot) a few you like. If you feel like you are lost, bust one of them. A personality test, a game, whatever, it really does not matter. Just make sure you are not boring her and make sure you do not do what most men do. Its all a matter of practice. Go out there and try new stuff, all the reading is not worth much with no field experience.

Hey Dante Romeo i'm a newbie too i've been taking this stuff out in the field a bit recently (familiar sets) i used to tell women about my work (actor/director) and assumed it conveyed social value i was wrong they got bored most of the time and walked away however the last week i've been playful and speak with passion about work and tell funny stories about it and multi thread. I'd simplify the talk about software people may not get it and personally i wouldn't wear nike trainers unless they were very funky and bright or if i was doing sports based activity . When in set i find myself noticing the patterns of DHV, NEGS, ROLL OFFS, KINO, GAMES, CONNECTION, SHIT TESTS and AMOG interruptions ect And CRITICISING MYSELF AFTERWARDS - so i can be better next time and so far so good. oh and i used to use "what do you do" but i try avoid this untill 30 mins and never spend any time on it then multi thread buddy she expects you to inquire about her work throw her off and tell her a story. Much Luck buddy hope this helps but i'm just R.A.F.C. and this is my first reply. (Disclaimer see anything i'm wrong about pm me)

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