Hey guys,

Where to start? I've only been in the game for a couple months, and I'm looking to increase my dating. I've read both the Game, and the Venusian Handbook, and currently going through them again. The first time I read the Game, it gave me way more confidence to actually approach women, and more importantly, helped me not give a crap about getting rejected. And the biggest thing, I became more focused on process instead of outcome. It became a really really fun game to me, as it should.

This was back in late March. Since then, I've joined the military, so I had basic training, and then moved in to my job for the summer. As it stands right now, I'm a bit shaken. I've had to deal with a huge culture shock with regards to the military, and the job that I'm doing. I'm constantly with people that outrank me, so my confidence is a bit shadowed by that. Also, I've had to deal with heartbreak since the end of my basic, so I've been particularly depressed lol.

This past week was good though. I went out, bought some new clothes, and accessories and made a decision I was going to get back into it.

I'm 5'6" with a solid build. I've been told I'm pretty cute/hot/good looking, so I guess thats fairly well taken care of? I'm in the military, I've been studying Muay Thai, Jiu Jitsu, and Neak Ta for 6 years, and I'm going into my second year of University studying music.

Anyway, I'm definitely not a natural, so I definitely need help lol.

My main points of interest are bars/clubs with patio's on the weekend. I don't know how to work game inside a loud club on a dance floor, so maybe that's something you guys can help me with?

Also, how do you keep not attached with certain girls? Or is that even an issue if you play the game properly?

I do have a field report from last night that I'll write up after this one.

Anyway, I'm looking forward to learning a lot from you guys and if you guys are in Ottawa let me know!

Cheers,

Jonneh