Hello all I am in need of emergency advice as to whether I need to freeze or not freeze. Dont worry I plan on sticking around, I've been a lurker far too long.

Okay. You know the question let me give you the background of our relationship. It started off roughly 3 months ago I walked into a burger place, sat down this girl came from the back and we locked eyes she completely froze and time stood still. I snapped out of it talked to her for about 10 minutes and left. Before I left I put my number down on a napkin. You guessed it- she started texting me. We learned things about eachother I kept my alpha role. I discovered she was a perfect match for me basically me in girl form.

We started hanging out and she told me she had this friend named alex who was away at college, I didnt think anything of it. Time went on we kept on having amazing times with eachother. I kept finding out little tid bits about alex how he was her back up plan for marriage and they have had intercourse just once (before me). I started to slip into more of a beta role, it turned into a fight becauase I wasnt comfortable with her hanging out with him- i told her it wasnt fair to bring someone like that into our relationship so early. Things now are a little weird and were taking it slow, I feel like its like this so she can let go easier.

We didnt speak to eachother for 3 days, I was the one who caved in. I have been the best boyfriend in her life and I'm always making her laugh, not to mention the weirdest things always happen to us. With this being said should I freeze her out? I always end up caving in because I always end up thinking shes not thinking about me.

And hi my name is joe! I'm loving this place btw.