Hi guys (and gals, if there are any here)!

I found this site earlier today after having the latest in a long string of AFC moments. To be honest I had heard of the community a little (have read The Game) but never really looked into it much, but after my latest dissapointment have spent a good few hours scouring the boards (hence I now know what an AFC is - me! )

Anyway, a bit about me, I'm 31 from northern England. I used to be okay with women, never great by a long shot, but over this past two years my confidence has been knocked and I cant seem to get out of the rut. I've had a lot of dates over the past year (from meeting in clubs and on POF / Match) but things tend to go well on the first date then fizzle soon after. Reading through the boards I think it may be a sexual confidence thing, but I'll make another post in a relevant forum and go into detail.

So hello to all, and I'm hoping I can pick up enough to drag myself out of AFC City!

Iam sure theres someone on here that can help you out iam from north of England so keep in touch

Cool, nice to meet someone local - the forums seem pretty cool so far, how have you found them?

Yea found them good seems like you are a bit further down the line than some of us if your getting dates your coming across good fairly new here but sounds like your having trouble escalating apparently most women are ready for sex anything between 2 and 10 hrs of interaction but you have to build sexual tension there stuff on this site about it , cant post links put it in the search engine if you want to talk private about the sexual confidence thing just pm me i have had some dealings in that department keep in touch

Thanks Ironman, I've fired you over a PM.