Alright I'm gonna give this a shot since I believe I need help. What you should know about me:

19 yrs old living in Okinawa Japan (if anyone who knows what they're doing happens to be here hit me up, I could use some help) working for the Marine Corps, like my forum name suggest I'm trying to find congruency with myself because right now at this moment I don't feel too comfortable with myself right now & I'm new to this stuff for the most part, read some material here & there but I think feedback from real people is the best help I can get.

If you're wondering, being a Marine does help with women but it doesn't make you good with women.

I'm here to not just get good with women but to find some guidance. I don't know what I'm doing with myself as of now and I feel like I'm drifting for the most part. (Here's the heart wrenching background story...Jk not so much) I guess this started right before I joined the corps, got burned bad twice by two females back home, moved out of parents place, joined the corps hoping it would take me away from the madness (which it did but now miss it because it wasn't really ever that bad). Don't get me wrong I don't regret becoming a marine, however home is home and even the corps can't change the way I feel about that. Now I'm in Japan. I've wanted to go to this place since I was a kid and now that I'm finally here somethings still not right. I have acquaintances here but not anyone I can call friend so it's just me for the most part.

I'm a musician, percussion is what I"m best at but guitar is my favorite, I play a bit of piano as well.

So...anyone of you think you could show me the ropes???

What base you on?

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