I’ve been good at becoming friends with girls, but I’m absolutely horrible at escalating. I have a ton of girls that say things to friends about how “great of a guy I am” but I’m not sure what to do to pick up interest.

I’m in college right now, but I’ve been trying to pick things up with a few girls I went to high school with, and I’m stuck. I’d appreciate a point into the right forum.

I have some I see in person, and a few I’m working on over facebook.

Hope someone can break this vicious cycle I'm in where girls I want I cant escalate and the girls that want me, I'm not interested in.

Not sure, I'm not very touchy to begin with. Which screws up almost all kino escalation. My conversations tend to not be very sexual, which is something I'm working on....

To answer your question though, I'm not sure what it is. I guess it has to do a little with anxiety. Because i usually go into a set just to talk and feel out the other person, then when i need to escalate i dont know what to do and i get some anxiety about messing it up.

I've been trying to adjust where i pick up girls. I used to go out to clubs and parties, but I've been trying to switch to girls in class or that I've met in classes or school, And I'm having a lot of trouble even building rapport which isnt normal for me.

And reigniting over facebook is just another monster. I'm more interested in trying to building with the girls I've already started with cause I already built some comfort.

I know where to post for the facebook stuff, if you have any suggestion where i should post about trying to reignite with girls i still have connections to I'd appreciate a more specific forum.