Just wanted to say hi. I'm new to the forum. 15, sophmore, AFC.
Above average looking. I do track and MMA so I'm rather built. Also very humble.
Because of that, I sorta adopted a wrong mentality, letting the chicks approach me, rather than aproach them. Thinking back, I don't think I've ever scored with a girl I initiated conversation with. It's always them who start it. I didn't care either because I still got a fair share of ass. That's until an experience I had entirely changed my life.
A few weeks ago, I went to a party that woke me up. Everyone's talking, grinding, having a good time. I was out there too, but when it came to making conversation with the honeys, I just couldn't do it. I waited like I usually do for someone to approach me. Nobody did. There was a really cute girl dancing by her friends, so I came up behind her and grabbed her hips. We grinded for a while and I tried talking to her up close by her ear. I felt awkward, didn't know what to say. After the song, I kind of awkwardly drifted off. I soon found myself standing in a corner at the back on my phone, googling how to talk to girls, to no avail.
That was rock bottom right there. For the next two weeks, I seriously strived to convince myself that I indeed have balls. I was pretty depressed. I searched the internet for tips, picked up "The Game" by Strauss and slowly worked my way up to being able to approach girls at school. Still working on keeping the conversation after the opener though. I found this forum today and thought it'd be a great place to go for advice and share experiences.
But that's where I'm standing. I thank you if you took the time to read my little essay and any tips would be greatly appreciated.
CHAT