I am 100% brand new to this sort of thing. I was in a 5ish year relationship that ended poorly and now I feel disabled when it comes to women.

What I need assistance with, is a new gal I met a while back. We hit it off at first, and had a few dates; it was great. But then I had to move out of town for about 6 months for work related issues. We continued to email and text all the time, but now to find out she has a BF and "really likes him". I am moving back to the same town in about a month and she wanted to get together for dinner; lame, right? She has a BF and what I need is some strategy for making a quick-reversal back to me.

I havent read any dating books or stuff like that just kind of randomly found this place. Any help would be great.

To begin with, it's tough to jump into something, especially a case where a girl has a boyfriend/husband and you want to get with her...let alone when you don't know any game at all. I do apologize I don't have better news but I would recommend you read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It generalizes the whole PUA community, how it works, and even help you with your game, it's very eye opening. It's like you know "The Game" is the very basis of your foundation and you build on it with other books into the method you want to further study. "The Game" takes a look into a lot of other methods. I will not be completely useless beyond that point though, I personally would recommend taking control of that situation, when the time nears, text her, email her, whatever you do and take control, say YOU want to do "Hiking, bowling, etc..." something that more physical, because I have noticed it's easier to Kino escalate, but once again she has a boyfriend so, you're going to have to pull some shit. So do something that's more physical and fun, where you can be yourself, so that you can have fun with her, make her laugh, while you laugh, and you can seem more intimate, im sure she will think about her relationship if you have a blast with her. Too bad you don't know any game, read that book, my suggestion isn't much if you don't know much game...

Hey, i m quite troubled in my personal life but trust me when I tell you that i know my game. lol She really likes him means nothing. It's a temporary thing, like I have to take a shit right now... Once you take the shit, you don't feel like it anymore lol so on that end don't worry. If she wants to have dinner with you ALONE (im hoping or else that's fucked up if she brings him along like who the fuck wud do that right(, then it's on dude... What you need to work out is logistics to get her to a location where you can sexually esclate... Verbally sexually esclate on her ass at dinner, get phsyical as much as possible with her... Tease her like, if she touches you while walking or something or bumbs into you, be like, stay away from my penis, i know you really like him, i dont wana ruin this for you. like fuck around joke, dont take her seriously whatsoever... If your frame of mind is stronger then hers she'll buy into your frame eventually as long as you have rapport with her and you keep her engaged in a fun playful manner. also try to think back when you had sex with her or whatever, and try to subtley, and i must emphasize this, subtley remind her of those times, but dont like sit there and go through the whole story, juust subtle, like a breeze, then continue ur normal interaction. good luck...

Also if you really wana do this, get really pissed off, get really horny, and have that INTENT eminating from behind your eyes right into her soul, that calm like i want you (tiger voice), and u "really like him" (in squeeky voice), tsk tsk tsk, ur ass is mine kind of attitude... while being fun........

Good luck..

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a quick routine u can work on is your kino which is your escalation of your physical touch this will help u alot i never used a boyfriend destroy but i kno kino with the right frame can go a long way. heres the link for good kino escalation http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Esc ... lo.com.pdf

but she still likes u if not u wld be avoided she probly mentioned the boyfriend to let u kno her situation its no big deal. gd luck bro

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Do you guys have an example of this boyfriend destroyer technique? Kind of going off of his poorer qualities, but how do I go about this?
-Also, I read most of "The Game" yesterday as suggested, but there was so much odd stuff in there that seem impossible to work in the real world.

its going to be odd bcause its new to u. i managed to understand it because it explian alot that i was familiar with and havent heard about. but since it strange to u means u arent currently doing it without practice certain things wnt be understood. if the thing that u are used to thats normal to you is not delivering the result u want your gona need to find somthing strange to get a new result.

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