I am 24 years old, and a virgin.

Why? Because I was a AFC, tho worse because I believed that if I waited, that'd I would find the girl naturally. When I found "that girl" who is as weird as me, I treated her as a friend because that's what I felt was needed. She used me good... used me for the little money I had, used me for her emotional post while she was sad about something to do with her boyfriend. And in the end, "She just wasn't into me". So much for waiting, first love, all that bullcrap romance! Now I need help!!

Right now I have a problem, my looks is shit (people say tho I'm 24, I look older I'll post pics?), I'm overweight, and even tho I have a gift for making girls laugh and feel comfortable with me - I can never get to the next step.

The hardest part about it is that I have little fascination with wanting to fuck other women (tho look at porn, so know straight lol). To a point another wall is that I feel like I want to do this to impress Lindsay (that girl, no last name given), which
in itself is foolish and stupid and I'm hoping that is the side effect. Tho I refuse to believe that as my goal.

I have a ton of objectives, going to post tons of questions dealing with looks, fitness, anything interesting, and hoping you guys can help me because I'm tired of how I'm living.

dont worry about the fact that you look old, your still below the optimal PUA, so looking older is good unless you are only trying to pick up high schoolers.

Find out what cool guys wear, and imitate it. Go to the gym loose weight, better yet, join an MMA gym.

As far as your crappy game goes, read game material and books, including this forum, and practice int h field. I havnt told you anything you didn't know, now you just have to start the journey.

As far as you trying to do anything with lindsay its because you still like her on some level, when you are truely over her, you wont give two shits about how she feels or thinks. That just takes time

Many of us have been where you are. It's just a turning point in your journey.

Let's look at some practical points. You're good at making girls laugh and making them comfortable with you so all you really need to make a huge first jump in your development is to incorporate sexual escalation into your interactions with women. If you start escalating sexually, women will see you as a sexual man and will want to fuck you, guaranteed.

I struggled while learning seduction for a few years until I got some pointers from a guy who learned from a dating coach called Magic. Later, I took some training with Magic and, after that, I knew exactly what I had to do to make myself the man I want to be. I can't recommend Magic enough.

Sad story.. Your 24, it's time to re-shape your life. You really need to start hitting the gym first of all. Start working on your looks.. Lose the fat.

While your doing this, read about PUA, learn, learn, learn.. Just because you look "Older" does not mean you can't pick up gorgeous women. You just need to put your mind to it. Push yourself to hit the gym as much as you can, and learn how to talk and make women comfortable .

I promise you, if you learn and practice.. And promise to gain muscle. In less than a year you'll feel amazing. I'll personally like to help you. Send me PM's anytime and i'll give you what i know.

~Goodluck

@Shylee

Here is a link to the dude I was telling you about before: http://www.attractionmethods.com