New to the community. I've used the name Pharaoh on several different forums throughout my online career so I figured I would carry it over here.

An introduction to my interesting challenge. I was married for 9 years starting at 19 and divorced a couple years ago. Since then I've only had one now ex-girlfriend. So here I am 31, divorced with two boys (7 and 4) who stay with me twice a month. After the second boy I got a vasectomy. The challenge this poses is that the concepts behind procreation are now gone for me so my internal emotions are somewhat skewed. Like all AFCs picking up women has never been a strong point of mine. I read The Game cover to cover and have started into The Mystery Method in the hopes that I can find some sort of salvation. In the back of my mind the girls I see when I hit the clubs have biological clocks ticking and it feels like I'm letting off some "I can't have kids anymore" vibe which increases my anxiety and telegraphs that to any potential target.

I'm also suffering from one-itis over my ex. The solution is supposedly to go out and fuck a dozen women but without the necessary skills (which I am hopefully absorbing) is quite the challenge.

Is anyone else on these boards facing a similar circumstance dealing with a vasectomy and how it relates to their pick up abilities? Or is it all just mental? The real killer question comes down to the end when you find someone special who may want kids and it's just out of the question (I'm not one for adoption).

Anyway. I've really enjoyed reading the various posts and seeing how helpful everyone is towards one another. I'm looking forward to meeting fellow AFCs and future PUAs as well as current PUAs in the Los Angeles area.

Pharaoh

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HEY MAN!

good luck in the game,i hope you find your way to be an ALPHA MALE!

go out and field test everything you read so you can become better!!!

PS:if you haven't read "THE GAME"yet,do so and i recommend mystery methode too

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