I'm 25 and live in the United States. I prefer to go at things alone, I'm not into sarging in groups, as I find it to be creepy and almost predatory. I've had 10 girlfriends in the last 5 years. I have a system or seeing a girl exclusively for 5 months straight then i break up with her, spend one month playing the field, on to the next exclusive. It works, I never get too attached to a girl or too bored. I've figured out how women think, and how we in return as men should behave. Also I've always remained friends with my ex's, it's not about loving and leaving but about meaningful connections.