Hey all,

After years of frustrated friendzoning, subsequent blockdeletes from life, cheating girlfriends, "surprise" STDs, "You're a nice guy etc" canned responses, and a general distaste for the common phrase "Just be yourself," I've come to this forum.

I'm 25 years old and decently good looking, but have issues with sensitivity, "minor" oneitis, and coming off girly and unassertive.

I also have a mild case of diagnosed Aspergers, and have struggled with it through life. But it gives me some advantage, I've taught myself through books and general observation to take an "analytical" look at body language, instead of a hardwired one.

I have almost no approach anxiety, working as a commissioned sales representative. I also don't have any confidence issues. So that's a start

I also don't have issues picking up women, but they're never the type I dream of. I tend to attract the unattractive, inconfident ones with a duffel bag full out of excess baggage.

So I'm looking to step up my game a bit!