Hi I am Don Juan from Birmingham UK. I usually hang out with the Jackal's crew in Birmingham on weekends. We approach sets, try to get numbers and so far, I have had a lot of progress. I lost a lot of my approach anxiety and now the next step is to start improving my comfort during sets. Usually I tend to lose the comfort when I talk to a girl. So I have to improve on this. Its all about sense of humour and DHV.

Hey man hope your doing well, i think you are talking about 2 different things here. DHVing and having a sense of humor helps to create attraction, comfort comes later on in set. I would focus on getting some solid attraction first, then later on moving into the dynamics of comfort (this is the way most of the community games).

You are right in thinking that having a sense of humor gives you a level of comfort early on, which is vital. If you are able to get the girls laughing at the beginning of the interaction it will put them at ease in your presence. To put this in context and show the power of it, think of anyone with authority in your life such as your boss, if he is a jolly guy with a sense of humor you will feel much more at ease with him, rather than if he is always 100% serious.

Good luck man, hope this helps.