ok so and indirect appraoch maybe over one or 2 meetings?
hows this?
so shes at the bus stop and i go up to her saying something along the lines of." hi im just wondering if you can help me out. i need to get to ____ have no idea how to get there do you know??( theres music festival this weekend and i can bet she'll be there!! everyones going!so maybe ask how to get there also a good conversation starter with lots of midgame questions ie music like dislikes, main acts etc etc)
then if she explains i can say thankyou for your help and say and something like your a friendly person not many round these days. maybe see u round the concert!
also whilst shes giving me info i can throw a few smart comments in there of how il get lost or something.?
or if i dont see her then i could try at the lotto place again if i see her there i can comment on her buying a ticket saying " nobody ever wins on those things!" in joking way...then i can proceed to go on telling her my near win experience how i thought i won$ 20000 but got read the ticket wrong and mixed up 2000 with 20000 lol" then see if shes had same experiences??
then at the end say iv got to run my names dave good luck with those tickets if u win dont forget me..
what do u guys think?? any tips/ pointers/ changes/ body language advice??
thanks guys appreciate the help!!
also how do i lead this into and exchange of details ie number facebook etc etc or should i leave that to a second meeting or if its going well should i just ask or just leave it at maybe il see you round???