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i.have giving the thought of approching for 1 year but im afraid what i say isnt good enough to lead to convesation.
Why have you spent so long just on approaching?
If you think too much about approaching and what you think she might say,
think or react to what you asked her...you begin to start doubting you
own abilities and that is where so many newbies in the community
fail. The trick is to NOT THINK. Who gives a shit what she
might think about you or what she might say? I can
guarantee you man, she will not bite your head off
or scream at you in any way after you open, trust
me I've done it and believe it or not if you open
them they will actually be quote happy to have
a chat.
Since you still have that anxiety
inside you I say you practice
on improving that inner game
of your until you feel comfortable
approaching women, cause if you
out the blue decide to approach a girl
and try to run an opener you won't have any
initial experience on how calibrate yourself in that
situation. If you want to see an example of a live approach
and how easy it can be done, goto my youtube link at the
bottom I show you how its done, its specifally uploaded
for the guys with AA.
I say forget everything for now, focus on destroying that
approach anxiety by opening a girl with a "coffee shop"
opener from the youtube videos...It's simple and
very effective in the long run, that little opener
will allow you to garner that confidence you
seek. It works.
You don't want to put too much pressure on yourself
and I know how it feels to have all that excitement inside
yourself and you feel like you can take on the world and
approach, but when you're out there by yourself it all
withers away because you set your own bar too
high. Take it from me man, there will be PLENTY
of other girls like you see in the shops in clubs,
bars, parties, malls, festivals...they are
everywhere. Never limit yourself to
one thing, expose yourself and
break out of that shell that
is the only way you will
ever get truly good
at this.
CHAT
