| What up guys, you can call me Sharkie, I'm 18 and I go to University of Delaware.
I have known the basic concepts to PUA for about two years now but only as of this year am I making a consious effort to actually use them. I knew that girls want a confident guy above all else, but through most of high school my confidence level was fairly low along with my social life. Only over say the past year and a half have I grown some inner game and now I can say that I am confident in myself, which shows in most things I do.
My issue is that, most of the time, when it comes to spitting game, I fall back on some beta tendancies without particuarly realizing it. I might start showing non-alpha body language, I miss social cues that I notice after the conversation, I might start to show a little bit of desperation that I know I shouldn't be showing. I'll often let conversations stagnate because I can't think of things to talk about.
Things I do have going for me: I know most of the do's and don'ts, I take care of my appearence, I'm not bad looking to begin with, I have a deep passion for music (I play bass, guitar, sax, and piano) from which a lot of my inner game stems, I am, as of the past year and a half, passionate about life. So far at college I have made many a number close during the day, and maybe like 6 kiss closes at parties, none of which resulted in me going back to my dorm with the girl.
So yeah, good to be here, sorry about the wall of text! Any advise on college game, specifically at loud parties, would be good. I always find approaching to be somewhat akward, because you essentially have to lean in, speak way too loudly, can barely hear what she's saying, and all sorts of other things.
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