Hey all, I'm Charlie, and at the moment im in the good city of Philadelphia. I'm 19 and some, and really need to get my game improved. I got into this from a friend who showed me a link tonight after hitting a sort of rock bottom. I was at a party as I am most weekends and as with all weekends I didn't score. Now this doesn't sound like too big a deal perhaps until you factor in the rest of my story. That could take up pages, so heres the jist of it: I just graduated from an all guys boarding school that I'd been at for 4 years. We did very limited activities with women and consequently my high school years were totally lacking in experience and were rather ...dry shall we say. Im at college now and the guys around me have much better game than I have ever seen. I'd like to out do them, and get laid. I dont have any game. I just sorta try and wing it. Its not so effective.

Heres what I have going for me: I'm not a buff guy but I'm slender and I hit the gym almost every day to keep some meat on. I'd like to believe I look good. I am a musician, (I've been playing the drums for 10 years). I'm a great conversationalist, and love to be social, although I do get anxious if its with new people or the vibe isn't right. I have a broad group of friends, although no close ones yet. I am social. I like having fun. I'm a nice guy. I'm smart too. When I'm in the right mood, I'm like on fire. That mood is not the norm though.

Heres what I dont have going for me: I dont believe the above nearly as much as I should. Its hard for me to relax. Im a computer science major, so chicks hear that and are over me. I'm an anxious person and that translates over to my being with women. Its hard for me to approach women I find attractive, and even harder to hold a good conversation. I care wayyy too much about finding someone to fuck and/or love (I'm content with either, I'd like to experience both), and that messes with my head. Its also hard to go from attraction to comfort, and from comfort to physical. after that Im all good. Its like the physicality is a confirmation. I can maintain any level Im at though no problem. I also dont really have any good friends who are into getting chicks. I sorta have to ride solo or go with people who either already have a girlfriend or potential target, leaving me without wing.

Goals:
basically I'd like to change as much of the above as possible, and learn to not care so much and relax a bit. ALso, I've been laid twice ...in the same night. Thats it. I'd like to change this as quickly as possible. Its driving me mad--literally.

I hope that wasnt too long,

nice to meet everyone!