I have been reading about but not practicing pick up for few months now. Finally in the right frame of mind to start. Sex alone is easy for me, physical attraction alone leading to a FB or ONS is not a problem. More than that is a issue however and I am ready to start looking for some kind of decent relationship with someone.

The last few months while not actively gaming, I have had success getting women to approach me or call me to them due to my body language, eye contact and general attitude.

One thing I need to start working on is approaching when I am not sure what will happen. Should I approach when I am attracted to a woman I am not sure about with the intent of trying to get blown out to get used to rejection? I think I would be fine if I knew I was going to get rejected ahead of time, or at least think I would be. It is the uncertainty of what will happen that I have issues with.

I was also FZ'ed many years ago before I left my ex wife by a friend I stuck with because she was a awesome friend even though I wanted to sleep with her after I left my ex. I still think she is hot, and she seems to be trying to get me to move towards getting more physical. If she is what can I do to keep her as a friend? We would be a train wreck if we got together.