| First Field Report:
Went out tonight for the first time, armed with my openers and what i hope is a readjusted my AA(Awful Anxiety or whatever)factor into an AE(amazing excitement).
This seemed to be a serious breakthrough for me. I was instantly more myself when i changed the way i look at that initial nervous energy. By calling it Excitement rather than Anxiety, I was in such a better place, mentally, when I entered the club.
Actually, not a lot happened tonight but I had a blast with two complete strangers that were really fun! I got two phone numbers and got 3 free drinks from a bartender! sure, neither guy is fuck-able but they are super nice and I've already got plans to go out clubbing with them on Sunday. Already, instead of just sitting in alone I was able to get out, have a great time and meet some new people.
So. What happened. First, I got there too early, 10pm. The place had just opened, only two other customers and the bartender. I opened the bartender with "My Little Ponies" just for practice and got instant rapport, he loved my little ponies, of course he did! I chatted with him, found out stuff about him, he poured me a shot on the house. After a while, I introduced myself to two-set down the bar, Elive and Ringo.
So I opened them with a basic hey, hello, how are you and initiated conversation.
We chatted for a while and waited for a crowd to show up. Here I ran into my first problem. Because I was having good conversation and didn't want to loose that companionship, that social value, I didn't eject from the two-set...I settled and I stayed with them all night. Even when more people showed up. First night out, I played it cautious, but that's not what a PUA does, is it? but i cut myself some slack, said to myself "Shut up! Have some fun and try some of the shit you read about!!!" So I did.
I suggested that we move to a new club. They agreed and off we went. At the new club, I opened a go-go boy, a two set, and some other guy.
The Hired Gun: So I'm at the bar next to my friend and the gogo boy is behind me talking to his friend, on a sort of break. Over my shoulder I say, "Aren't you freezing?"
HG: Leans in "what"
Me: "aren't you freezing, i'm fucking cold and you're wearing like nothing"
HG:laughs, leans in over my shoulder to talk in my ear, "i'm hot, i've been dancing"
Me: I put my hand on his chest(Kino) like i'm checking for a fever and said "you're not that hot...i'm so cold i could chisel an ice sculpture with my nipples...(he laughed and put his arm around my shoulder) I could chisel you, but out of ice, blah, blah, blah." I kino'd again, running my hand down his stomach
HG: so are you a good tipper?
Me: Nahhh, I never tip, i'm way to pretty!
HG: laughs, "I'm Pedro, what's your name?"
Me: Me
HG: Nice to meet you.
and he went back to work.....so it was my first shot at a hired gun and I thought i'd just give it a shot. I'll never know if I don't ask right? Anyone see where I could have number closed? Or was he just working? Either way, I had fun and I never would have had the guts to talk to a VGL like him before. he was an easy VGL8
finally, the last two-set I opened by asking for a light. He didn't have one and proffered his cigarette to use instead.
Me: "oh wow, you're letting me buttfuck you right here on the street, what a slut" guy: laughs
and we started to chat. Then i use "my little ponies" then laid a false time constraint, the we chatted about some other shit and I ejected nice a clean. No number close but it was good solid, non-creepy banter with some good looking people. I didn't think i could do this but i did!
All in all a great night. And I didn't just drag myself to a club, hover around like a creep and go home alone, Hell No. I went out and met some new people and this is what it's all about, right? thanks all!
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