Hi,

I am a beginner and I don't feel I am the most successful guy with girls. I had a long relationship and after breaking up and dragging a broken heart I am waking up these days. I have a girl that's not a girlfriend but likes to come and share love every now and then, which is something I like.
Not long ago this cute girl that I didn't expect to date or get closer to her, said that we should go get a beer one of these days. I have been quite busy, genuinely, but we finally agreed to meet up in a couple of days. I am very excited about that. The girl is good looking and very nice. Now, I don't know how to handle this date, because a girl doesn't tell you "we should go out" just for no reason, but I also don't expect her to take care of the whole thing. As I see it she found a way to put herself in the situation with me, and now it's my job to escalate this. How? Please let me know. I will be a good date, and I will take her to a place I like, which happens to be quite close to my place. I know that good talking and contact are important. I can understand some basic language, from Leil's book, which I like because it's all backed by papers! But if you guys can share your wisdom, you know I will thank you very much for that and I will share my field report if anything happens.

Thanks!

Max

35 of you haven't been very helpful. That makes me think that either you are beginners too or you are too lazy. Be that as it may, the situation changed today, when I was told a sister and her (girl) friend are going with us. I don't know how to handle three girls, but we'll have a good time. My social life has increased and I am seeing lots of friends in the little time I spend in my city. Dating girls is fun too and I am seeing dating as a longer term investment. I don't know what the outcome will be in the near future, but I'm in for the fun and whatever the future may bring.

Max