I"ve been reading all the material.......i really want to put it in play....i'm having problems doing it by myself.......it fucks up my confidence when i walk into a place alone....i feel i need some experienced wingmen to boost confidence and push me in the right direction. What do you guys think? i live in Little Rock fyi.

Unfortunately I'm not in ur area, but I know what u mean. It’s hard to get out all by ur self.
The thing is, when u are two unknown guys… u have to train a little before u go out. The most important thing is trust and never pic up ur wings girl.
Train some conversations at home to each other and go out together but pic up separately for the start. It’s good to have somebody and not be alone for the start, but using a wing right (like timing and what to say needs a little training).
If u don’t have a friend how wants to get into the game take a usual friend and go with him to the bar/club. Tell him u are goin to the bathroom… on ur way try some pic up routines. This way u don’t even have to lie when u tell the girl that u have not much time
But maybe u will find a wing under the Real Life Gaming – Meet up and Wing section.
Good luck

Good advice. I really feel like it boosts my confidence to have someone with me, plus it just seems like everyone else is there with people...so i don't want to be the lone loser.....i try to get my friends to go out...i don't even need them to help me run game...just more comfortable i guess. When i am by myself i just feel like i fall into some frozen state if i'm not chattin it up. Obviously i need a lot of work lol.

Hi Mate

I'm new to this forum as well and I was in the same situation as you. I had read material and needed to test it out so I decided to out alone last night for the 1st time. Now I don’t know what your City is like as I'm from the UK, but If you go out alone go to busy places and talk as soon as you enter ( the 3s rule). The 'fight outside' opener worked great for me. Search this site for tips on going solo as it helped me a lot. I didn’t do brilliant last night but I learned loads. I’ll do a field report which you can read if you’re interested.

I’m after wings as well to improve my game so best of luck.

Cheers