Hy guys,
As the title says I'm new here. I'm 25 and I'm from Romania.
I enjoy bowling a lot, chess and all sorts of thinking games, I also enjoy RPG and RTS games.
What made me join the forum? You may ask yourselves. Well the truth is that for the past 5 years I've only had 2 relationships that lasted more than 2 years each so I haven't played the "game" for quite some time. At the moment I'm in a 2 months relationship that I'm not actually happy with. So the reason I'm here is a woman of ourse. She's a coworker and the situation is, how should I put this, sensitive. She's in a relationship for 7 years; she isn't receptive at all to anything but I got to her somehow a couple of weeks ago. When I got a job here and found out how long she's been in a relationship I got my mind off of making her mine and behaved as I usually do and having a boring job I usually made sexually harassing jokes that never work. Anyway, after a day's work and a night in the club with coworkers I found her online on YM and started a conversation that I'm really glad we had. She started saying she's surprised that I didn't try to take advantage of her been drinking despite all the jokes I make at work. I replied that I really meant those jokes and I'd love to have her. She confessed that she had, for some time, the same urges towards me. The problem is she's a lot shyer and she won't initiate in face to face conversations.
I came here advice, I don't know what to do next, to keep pursuing her or not to. I want to keep pursuing her because she is well worth it but I need professional help, I feel like I've come to a stop with my progress.
Hope some of you had the patience to read all of this because for me it took forever to type this from am iPod while working.
Looking forward to some advice!