Hey I'm Zak been lurking the site for while and feel you guys can help me out.
I did the stupidest thing a guy can do I let another guy sneak in cause I lost her interest. Three days before I bouth her a ring. I want to win her back I love this girl. She lied to me at the break up for the entire week said she need time her grandmother was dying. But told everyone else I cheated on her. Went out with the other guy as soon as we broke I confronted her about said she didn't have time for him and that she still loves me. Found out she was with him for sure from a good friend confronted her again telling her I still love her and care for her. And asked if she ever loved me she flips and say she loved me so fucking much and and still does. Three days later I stopped by her house and dropped off her shit I still had. Just the full short from her mom so I knew the complete truth for sure. When she just home her mom freaks out on her for what she did to me. I get a text saying sorry. and that she's a bitch and that she didn't want to hurt me anymore. I said the text was unacceptBle and what she did was cruel and to say it to me in person. We talk she tells me we broke up cause she wasn't happy and it wasn't my fault thAt she's just fucked up in the head. Has commitment issues trust issues and shit like that. And that she still loves me. I become a dick and start testing her asking questions like was the miscarriage real and couldn't we have talked and fixed this. She says she doesnt want help with her issues. Says thing like you can get a girl thAt is prettier and love you more then me and idk y you loved me. I say all the reasons I love her and thT I only want her. Text her to last two times saying if you still love me is it fair to the other guy. And if you loved me wouldn't you try to fix and talk about this. Then I sent a facebook message two days ago saying sorry I didn't interest you much and that o should of taken her out more and payed better attention to her and wish I could of fixed thongs. It's been two days and no answers. I want her back so bad but don't know what to do and I know I screwed things up. I know she proably left cause she was bored of me we just sat around watching tv together cuddling when this guy offered to go do shit. So how do I win here back.

Why do you want to win her back? She is manipulative bitch, she turn around the game so you would feel sorry for her and guilty leave this girl be, she doesnt like you she cheated on you and will continue on the curse . Delete her facebook and contact and move on.

But since you want her back and probably will ignore my previous advice, best advice is changing and being more confident and mature ,Pua can give you tools to increase your inner game. And dont go buy her stuff to win her back, she is manipulative believe me freeze her out for a month a so she will come back crawling for you attention.

Thanks for the tip man I deleted her number and facebook already. I've gone out on other dates and gotten laid in the last week for an ego boost. And far as I heard she never cheated but I have thought of it. I've been her longest relationship to date and I know this guy won't last cause she's filling my gap in her life plus he's just wanted to fuck her for long and her friends wanted them to date. So I'll ignore her if I get that text or call eventually I'll play it from there and test the waters before I decide if I could deal with the chance of getting shit. Only thing is she has never gone back to a guy and has been used so idk if she ll come back at. I do love her I wanted to marry her but yea shits hard to figure out.

Either way man freeze her out she need to miss you, step up your game learn new routines , improve your inner game In one month and half reavaliate the situation and see if she is worth, She will proabbly will contact you if not you need a gameplan to win her back.

But I discouraged you to do that, there are plenty of girls out there with better personality and better looks and who will be more in love than this girl, she is manipulative girl who will continue doing so.

gl

Also when I said I loved her and always would the last text she sent back was that I would move on every other guy has you'll find someone prettier and can love you more then I did. If didn't keep saying she loved me and shit I wouldn't be so confused by her idk it's hard to go through when you know the truth and that she was honest for so long then turns into a bitch breaking up with you saying she needs time. And that we ll get back together crying and shit. Then freaking out at you and ignoring you when your trying to get answers to what's going on.

I totally understand it happen the same with me, we broke up for no reason at all she only told me that love wasnt enough cried, said it was going to be the most hardest thing she will do said she loved me but was fed up and even the following days sent me sms which my afc quickly respond it made me doubt if I should move on or fight for her which is know she is very used to guys doing that so I move on, I love her but it is the right thing to do. So Move on

I'm prepared to move I just want to fight for it if I can I left my girlfriend of three years to be with her. Well basically we had a really bad fight and she wouldn't slow down her drugs use and I warned her I'd leave. And then I dated this girl and this shit happened cause we stopped doing shit with her and this guy offers to take her out and shit. But everyone tells me to leave and move just hard when you love someone and you want to fight for it

I really think freezeout is the best policy.

Things like that work even better on hot women because they are not used to it.

cut and run mate.

That's real bad news. Do you really need a woman who is a drug addict?

Women are bad enough who are NOT drug addicts.