Just to post this msg took me around 30 minutes of "should I or should I not" self talk.

Hey guys I'm 23 year old "boy", I have never had a girlfriend. Because I always found a reason not to like girls who liked me, ofc not knowing that it will only make it harder later on.

I already know a lot of this stuff but the funny thing is when I'm going out I can't get myself to act. Even though I'm always one of the "wallflowers" somehow every so often there is a girl who will dance and grind on to me and do all kinds of ioi's like hang around, smile at me, stroke hair a lot etc but I will always find an excuse for why IF I try something now I'm gonna get rejected.

Anyway, I'm ready to change.

im assuming by your post your not un attractive guy just like myself use your good looks to your advantage it makes it easier to close sets then a un attractive pua. other words we dont have to peacock as much i still do lol.

it seems your scared of reject my friend' practice on woman your not that into, this can build your confidence. but next time you get IOI from hot chicks whisper in their ear with a slight eye contact and be a little flirty neg a little make her fight for you.

theirs a lot more you can do just practice different routine

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