hello world!

so ill try not to write my life story and keep it short an sweet as the good book says. Right then my name is raj and im 26 years old. Im origionally from ye old coventry and like most guys have been for the most part of my life terrible at anything other than friend zone untill that fatefull day when my housemate said, 'hey i heard of this book called the game' and my eyes finally awoke!

im 6ft tall and currently 13 stone but things were not always so rosy. untill the age of 21/22 i weighed a whopping tony soprano sized 22.5 stone and had been very overweight through childhood thus no women! for some reason it took till that age for something in my head to just click an be like... errr... dude... you need to get you sh*t together. I think it was a combination of pier pressure,never getting the girl and being tired of struggling to find clothes that fitted well. so i started working out,stayed at uni when everyone else went back an hit the gym an i started to note women looking at me. at first it was weird cuz i thought that i looked weird or had something on me like a stain lol.

right so the game enters my life at the end of uni but it was a while untill i actually read it. i like to refer to it as the 'real bible' cuz it changed my life as im sure it has others. One of the things i started to do was take up hobbies and interests that most people just say 'i could never do that' an defeat themselves before even trying. i started going out an started approaching girls in places like oceana. i find having a group of people with you that support your efforts(this small group of mates all knew about the gam,just i was the only one trying it out) an was blown away by how it was working. now i was fresh so told myself to only get names an then leave an inside i was a nervous wreck. went out again another week an opened a 8 set with only 3 girls in(students) an made out with one, then opened a 2 set sitting down hb7 who i ended up in a relationship with for a year. this was great an bad in both ways. i was thrilled to have a pretty girl wanna be with me but as time went by i realised she was actually quite boring, heart of gold but had nothing to talk about so i ended it an concentrated on building a better life for myself. mistake i should have got back on the wagon an kept up practice...

i now have quite a busy life which is great, i aim to have a sculpted physique one day. I do lots of martial arts which dominates my life. for the last 2 years ive been training in thai boxing,submission wrestling, mma, western boxing and jui jitsui up to 5 nights 2hours a day an i love it. i hope to star competing next year. i love the sport and the dedication,fitness an mentality required its just a awsome SPAM to be in when everyone around you is pushing to get fitter. I also am learning to play the guitar an lots of my friends are in there own bands(i use there gigs as DHV's to girls) Ive worked on my image alot with lots of peacocking(not in a fluffy hat way) with bright colours and accessories always. i do find now i can get an hold eye contact with a girl but i freeze up inside. i want to get back into it and i love birmingham for nights out, i find the crowd so much more diverse.. i was by no means a pro at any point,barely a novice or less i was just getting towards being able to make out with atleast one girl a night an get a number close from someone. so id love to meet some pua's an tell you guys more on a test night on broadstreet...

so here is my first ever field report( Shocked)

last friday i went to ricoco with a mate and 2 girls i know, we were drinking a fair bit which was bad and i wasnt doing any game other than smiling, yes i know that lame before you all say. so as the night got later i found that when i was on the dance floor no matter which part i moved to it felt like girls would eventually surround me(im aware of how cocky this sound) but being a wuss i did nothing about it an caught a few girls looking at me. there were so many hb7 girls in there all in there early 20's it appeared. i went o the bar an drank more basically. then for some reason i flucked up the balls to do something an there was 2 hb8, knowing i had seen them earlier an they seen me i used the @

''heya ive wanted to talk to you all night but yourve been surrounded by guys constantly,whys that whats so interesting about you''

sonia - ''i dont know, nothing''

me - ''figured that but for some reason i know i wanna talk to you but dont know why''

we both laugh

me - whats your name,

her - sonia, whats yours?

me - ''ohhh theres not enough trust in this relationship to tell you that'' cheeky grin

sonia - ''she looks at me an says that was smooth

me - ''hey your friend is just stood there dont be rude,introduce me''

sonia - this is my sister

me - hi im raj dont tell yo sis my name as im making her work for it(now i was drunk an i would not normally say that an have no idea how she took that but she smailed) i prolonged the hand shake an did a big smile an eye contact...

my memory fades a little after this,i think i kinda froze again an syumbled off. they were at the bar kinda looking over so i opened a nearby set so the girls at the bar could see as i fluffed the verbal game. a while passed an as me an my mate were leaving i hovered around work my nuts to go back an try an number close. i said to her

''hi again it was nice meeting you both,your both cool. look sonia i wanna know if the reason i wanna talk to you is more than just this night,this place,music these drinks an would love to speak to you again, how about you give us your number or facebook?''

the number was a no go but she took my phone an put her name in, i waited a day an found her on f.b. an sent a msg. Weve exchanged a few msg and ive made dam sure to leave a good amount of time inbetween each response. she has shown ioi's in the ways that she replies so quickly e.g.i responded after 10 hrs once,she took 5 mins after that. i sent her this msg earlier tonight and got a text on my phone 10 mins later:

''heya

ive a hectic weekend about to start. firstly im of for a manchester night out for my mate jaz birthday then need to be back in brum for my first shift for my ted baker job from 10-2 then im of to milton keynes for another mates birthday night out! booked a executive hotel room for the sake of it lol

im coming back to brum on sunday to meet my mate acta as she wants to go shopping in bull ring and will have a spare couple of hours after ive met her.cant stay too late cuz of training.

remember me sayin id like to meet ya at the market...well i got the ideal opportunity now so how about it. fancy meeting me at the german market??? i wont be back on the net till sun so text me, my number is *****''

her reply said

german market ey? x

me- went for first time last year,cant wait ti see it again.u?

her latest reply

''ive been about 3 or 4 times. i went when i was 14 around christmas and the markets,quite good there,i love the christmas feel. x''


suggestions please???

prob would go with along the line of, love the feel of the happy christmas vibe in the air,people sat at the wine bars having fun.you prefer red or white wine?



p.s. a friend of mine by the name of DEANEY used to use this forum and highly recommended it to me. he said to contact his old buddies. anyone know a MEHOW or a ADAM AFC ????????


THANKS FOR READING GUYS, ALWAYS A PLEASURE


RAJ

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Raj Gill