| Hey guys.
Let me start with why i joined this forum. I joined for one reason and one reason only; to regain the confidence ive already lost. I used to do pretty well with girls, make them laugh, have a good time with them and stuff. Until i met this one girl who blew me away. She was funny, intelligent, good looking, lovely personality, and the most important thing, she was in my head 24 hours a day. Long story short, i was convinced i was in love (Oneitis). This was the girl for me. No need to talk to, or chat up, any other girl ever again. That was, however, until she disappeared from my life. The last i heard from her, she said she was pregnant with some random guys kid. Now im not saying that i was dying to have children with her, i mean it was 2 years ago, i was only 18. But it still hurt, and ive not been able to get over it since. The bitch is still in my head.
Im 20 years old, and im at university in Edinburgh in Scotland. Im studying Actuarial Science (i still have to google it).
Life at uni is fantastic. Everyone who has been to or is at uni knows why. It is the place for me to go back to being a guy who can get girls.
What i need help with is having the right things to say at the right times. Openers, for example, have always been a sticking point. Also, i dont wanna have the same old boring chat with a girl i.e where you from, how old are you, what do you do. I'd rather have them just want to tell me these things naturally.
I want to be the main guy in my year. The guy people talk about. The guy girls want. I'm confident the girls think im pretty decent in the looks department, but i wanna follow that up with good chat.
I found out about PUA's through a friend recommending 'The Game' to me.
Im sure that if i receive help i can return it. i just need to learn a few things first.
Any help would be really appreciated.
Thanks guys.
Baino.
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