First I am 22, but soon will be turning 23. I live in Bulgaria (EU country), Sofia. I heard about the game from friends of mine. I read "The Game" and some of David DeAngelo's books. I have been studying these things for a month or two and I am slowly starting to implement them in may daily routines. But I believe this is a powerful tool and can help us improve, not just by getting laid, but also in other aspects. I am still building my arsenal of methods so I still don't have preferences. I am studying NLP right now and trying to work on my frame. My goals, as far as I think, are to get laid. But on a subconscious level I think I want to build a long-term relationship.

I have slept with only three girls and it was because, by chance, I managed to pull things right. I work-out, I am good at conversations and I am good dancer. I consider myself nice looking guy, but I still have issues with my self confidence. I am very smart and once I read an article by DeAngelo about the smart guys problems and I have them all. I have very hard times kiss-closing. I can't find IOIs and I am never sure that girl wants me to kiss her and this thing scares the shit out of me. A long time ago I dated a girl and was trying to get the courage to kiss her so many times, that I have build some kind of generalisation and I always feel uncomfortable when it comes the time to seal the deal. If you can help me on this one it would be perfect!

Another thing I always wanted to find out is weather a girl that rubs her butt, by dancing with you, is really sending a clear IOI? Enough to kiss close?

Best regards,