Hi all,

I've been single for just over a year now and my longest relationship has been around 7 months, and the only girlfriend I've had - I've had a couple of FBs and slept with around 11 women - not all I remember and I'd probably only sleep with half of them again! - some drunken mistakes!

I heard someone on the radio meantioning The Game so bought the book and found it all pretty interesting, almost finished that so had a look around the net to see what else there was and found this - so Hi.

To be honest I'd class myself as more than average looking, not great, but certainly not ugly. I'm a pretty confident person, find it very easy to talk to girls, not always to chat them up, but still. If i've had a few beers I'm better at that, not a lot just a few for dutch courage.

Quite often I find out that one of my friends female friends have fancied me but I have never recipricated, and the one I like I hardly ever get, so I'm stuck in a really frustrating postition where I feel I'm confident enough but not getting the girls - or the close, I occassionaly get numbers, but rarely get a date.

I'm going through the stage now of changing my attitude - being even more positive, maybe trying day game to get used to sober approaches, and just going for it - I do hold back with the really hot girls. A lot of the stuff I read, push - pull - negging, breaking the touch barrier - I do anyway, theres clearly something missing and I just can't see what it is - hopefully pushing myself might change that no idea.

There we go thats me, thanks for listening guys, I look forward to your advice and then giving it where I can - I seem better at giving than recieving

RTH