Hi guys, I am not here to learn how to pick up women, I don't have a problem with that, but to use the info to increase my confidence.

I have recently broken off a 14 month relationship with a women I work with (if you want any advice on dating in the workplace, DONT DO IT!!), and it really hit me hard, destroying my confidence with women. You know what I'm talking about "if she doesn't want me, who will? How will I go on bla bla bla"

After using some tips off this site my friends and co-workers have noticed a change in my personality. So thanks guys, some of your posts/topics have been very helpful to me. I have no problem walking up to total strangers and talking about anything, even HB10's who would scare off most men.

If I had to say which theory helped me the most it would be the "who gives a fuck" attitude.

Thanks guys
And yes I'm an Aussie, and no, Kangaroo's aren't in my backyard hahaha.

Another Aussie, good to see lol.

Know what you went through with the long term relationship break up. Only just got out of the woods myself so to speak.

Agree with you about the attitude. The times I do take that approach are the times I've done well.

Welcome. I'm new, too, so let's figure this stuff out together.

So much of it is just your mindset. Start small and go at it like an experiment. Go all in, see what works and what doesn't, and get better the next time. Build on your successes.

And I'm a Texan, but I don't have oil wells in my backyard or ride horses to work.

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-Kelly the Guy

Thanks mate. I am sooo ready to get back into the game, I feel 10ft tall and bulletproof.

Only problem is for the last week I have been struck down with tonselitus, and looks like i will have it for another week . Good things come to those who wait i guess.

Hey guys, went out clubbing last night and met up with a group of friends, probably 10 people 50/50 male female, then ran into 4 other mates.

Just wanted to go slow, so just followed the basic club rules to having a good night.
-Walked in like i owned the room
-excellent posture, shoulders back etc
-talked to people at the bar while we waited
-talked to bouncers
-talked to guys when i went to take a piss "good night" etc
blablabla, you guys know the rest.

Night went really well, I didnt come across any ''approach anxiety'', and i was a designated driver, so alcohol wasnt a help (this was an issue when i got tired, but when i needed an energy boost, i just grabbed a redbull from the bar and it seemed to work). I opened numerous sets, got them to join our group, and danced with a group of 6 HB 7's.

ONLY PROBLEMS i have found is I think i may have subconciously games an "ugly friend". I was just being polite, and without knowing it i went to eject and got pulled back in with the strength of 10 men, DAMN SHE DIDNT WANT ME TO GO!!!

Also, after being laid up with tonselitus, i lost the skill to talk from my chest, so i was always screaming, sending me horse. By the end of the night i was just talking straight into ppl's ears. I will have this fixed by the weekend.

Ended up just getting facebook details, I wasnt really out to "pick up" more to take off my training wheels. I learnt alot, nothing beats experience, no matter how much you read. Also shut down afew AMOG's, by getting them stuck in a conversation with me, then they lost interest in the girl and left hahahahahaha.

P.S, how would you let the "ugly friend" know your not interested. she kept whispering in my ear "im soooo wet", enough to freak me out hahaha. I think by acting distant to her and being cool, i may have inadvertantly drawn her in closer DOH!!!

TIP; i noticed a guy that could dance!!! the dude was ballroom dancing, twirling, spinning and dipping this chick. Every girl was drooling over him. Guys, learn how to do that!!!! haha. I will try it this weekend

I'm new here as well, and yes another aussie has entered the building guys.

Bro i know what its lik with the break up thing. I broke up with my chick last week, and funnily enough i've sorta been studying this stuff for a while. It's so fuckin interesting i couldnt help it. but yeah now im sorta running around trying to open sets and finding it hard to get myself into the right frame of mind. I think im gonna have to take on the whole "dont give a fuck attitude as well". When your with one person for so long you kinda forget how to interact with random chicks. But anyway how is it sarging on the goldie? Thats where you are isn't it?

Peace M.C

Bit north man hahaha. Sunshine coast, qld.

Its all good, your oneitus does fade when you with another woman.
Stick with it mate it gets better.

Its pretty good up here, I just need help with this ugly chick hahahah. She posted a pic up of me, her and her friends on face book. To which i posted "RAAAAPPPEEEE ". Then she replied "its only rape if you dont like it "

I am scared hahaha

Far out man thats an iffie situation for sure.

It sucks because if she tags you in it then everyone who hits your photos up can see this ugly battler hanging off you, hence lowering your value for other hotties who see it. I dunno man if shes tagged you in it, i would untag yourself.
But on the flip side she might crack the shits. Still you definantly dont want dirty chicks in your photos. Hurts your rep.

peace M.C

welllll. i wouldnt say she is a battle axe.
I would say body.....6
face......4-5

Im just not into her, but she has some hoooot friends.

Yer, i would leave it up then man.

Make friends with her try your best to keep it nothing more. Then attract the friends bra. It's the way to go for sure.