Hi there everyone,

My name is Kaiten, I'm 21 and I'm from Barcelona.

Since I can remember, I've always been a very insecure guy. I was a bit overprotected by my parents and that didn't help me on my social skills. 5 years ago I began to hang out with friends to bars, dance floors and night social spots. But when I started (just started) in my social self-improvement, I knew the girl which held me for 4 years, and I don't even pick her up, she was the one hitting on me, so I learned nothing of this art.

Now, after a year of intense self-improvement in a lot of aspects, I want to definitely learn the art of attraction. I have a lot of aspects of myself I want to work, but I have now parked them in order to fix this one, the social aspect.

I'm the typical nice guy, an AFC. Otherwise, I guess I wouldn't have signed up here. One of my last projects (after kissing and some sexual games but not completing) told me: "You are too good for me". Just like "We had fun, but let's just be friends" and all that.

I have serious approach anxiety, although one week after this story I told you I executed quite a good game, with negs, isolating the target and kiss close. But it remains unrepeated.

I now want to build self-confidence by approaching a lot, but it's always very hard to me. But I think it's the only way: do, do and do; approach, approach and approach. I'm good looking, and I usually get EC and all that, but I don't even open.

I'll thank any help with AA and dance floor openers.

I'm spanish, so excuse my mistakes with English and feel free to correct me.

By the way, If there's someone from Barcelona or getting here usually, just pm me for meeting one night in the field.

Thanks a lot!

Kaiten.