hi All

Recently had a bit of time off from a tricky schedule. Thought that i would be able to jump right back into the swing of things with women. I was primarily using the free dating site plentyoffish for my source of dates.

Over the last 2 months, i seem to have really lost my mojo.

Date 1 (looks 5/10)- 2 months ago, met in bar, stayed till 12.20. Was a weeknight, and went back to hers. K closed and got to second base too, but she started crying about her ex and I left. After that I mishandled my text game and things nose dived with the next few dates as shown below. I texted this one a bit but she only replied a couple of times.

Date 2 (looks 3.5/10) - 6 weeks ago. Again got them from the net, took her out to a bar and she left while i was in the bog.

Date 3 (looks 4/10) - 3 weeks ago. Took her out mid week, again from the net. We chatted for a bit, maybe 2 hours in a bar. By now I am beginning to use game. (at last they cry) I use kino at 9 pm, while still light on the way to her car and show her I can do a good massage. We kiss v. briefly on the lips. She goes home.
I text her the next day she doesnt reply. I speak online she dismisses me summarily.

Date 4 (looks 3.6/10) - 2 hours after date 3. Unbeknown to date 3 I went to meet some people I vaguley know in a bar around the corner. I am socialising well, the talent is not so good, but there you go.

I take one on to a bar on the proviso she is to get me a drink for the one I got her. She doesn't offer and I pay for them all. I go for a kc in the taxi queue and get her cheek. I still try and go home to her flat but she leaves me in the taxi.

I want to join the community to grow as a pua. I think i am nearly close, but not quite got the inner game, or outer game at the moment.

Any thoughts on the above would be appreciated of course.

thanks for reading
bandito

Eh. Don't dwell on it too much. Do you even WANT to have sex with these girls? I've learned that women are pretty good at sensing disinterest/disgust/disappointment and will shut me down before I go through the motions for the sake of sex. I'm guessing that's where you're screwing up or you truly have no verbal game.

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