Just wanted to say hey, and while I'm new to the game, I've been enjoying it. It hit me with a realization a week ago, I was an AFC. It wasn't because I lacked style, or because of what I do for a living, but rather my perception of the world. My parents raised me this way, I blame them (they did a great job otherwise), and taught me to treasure and respect the girl I like. While true if you're in a relationship, it's murder when you're trying to get to know someone.


That was me. I've been reading as much as I can, learning as I went along, and while I can't go out clubbing each night, I usually go out with a couple of like minded friends.

I initially had problems with AA and still do (especially with a pair or just one girl), but for some reason groups of 3+ are no obstacle for me, and I k-close EVERY time. I know I still need to work on how to switch from the girl I've been paying attention to, to my target (they aren't ugly or anything, and they're fun to hang out with, but still...while any cookie can be delicious, one wants the tastiest looking one around). I also am not the hottest with day hunts either (I can get into conversations, no problem, but I hate negging (I have a hard time with it, but if I use a neg, it's almost always the lint on shirt approach). Just here to learn and wanted to say hi.

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It's not about being the biggest show, it's about being in control, and able to SEEM like you're the biggest show.

good job and k-closing all the time. that's a great step and it sounds like you're well on your way.