Hi, I'm from Milwaukee and ready to commit fully. I dabbed lightly with the Mystery Method and a lot of the concepts stuck with me and they helped me in every day life. Now, I am terrible at cold approach, well I'm just afraid to try, I know I'd be good if I did it because I am charismatic, a good talker, and fairly handsome. I grew up very large and then lost a lot of weight so rejection terrifies me since I still see some of that in me even though no one else does. I also recently went through a break-up that has hurt me a lot, but I then realized that my problem is that I am grasping at whatever opportunities come along rather than going out there and getting opportunities myself.

I have all the same usual self-doubts, oh this won't work, I'll choke, they'll turn me away, etc etc. I want to stop doing that though. My game has been based on dancing, I dance very well to hip hop so that instantly increases my value, but I use it as a crutch rather than to supplement.

I don't really have any friends who I could sarge with, I have a few but not many. So any PUA's here in Milwaukee that would like to integrate a novice with a lot of potential? I'm eager to learn and have many of the concepts down, all I need is a little guidance. I want to take control of my life and know if I like a woman that I can have her.

So nice meeting you all, any advice would be great even if I have to go at it solo, but it would be great to meet a couple of guys to go out in a group with with the same mindstate.