| Greetings, I'm a 17 year old male from Portugal who has recently realised that he is on the highway to being a virgin for life, whilst most of my friends have/had girlfriends and some even are no longer virgins I'm yet to get my first kiss and I want to change that situation, not just to get layed but to also live out most of my secret fantasys like being all wuvvy doovy with a girl, something that in IRL I make fun of when I see it, while secretly envying the guy who is with someone he enjoys.
And that is what brings me to you, I heard about "the game" a few months back when I saw an interview with Neil Strauss on an old Letterman episode and did a little research on the subject and sayed to myself that I should try sometime, truth is I never ended up doing it, until a few days the topic of dating came up in a convo amongst friends and I was confronted with the question: "Have you ever kissed a girl?" to which I replied the obvious "no" and seeing my friends face of suprise when I answered made me realize how "late to the party I was", and I decided that I had to do something to access the situation and remember the Neil Strauss interview and decided that this time I would give it a try for real, and during my google search I found this forum and browsed around for a bit and liked what I read.
My two biggest problems seem to be that I'm not a really sociable creature, be it females or males, but after a while I end up loosening up with people and just be more talkative and interactive, the other problem is that I'm not in touch with "my feminine side", I have a hard time dealing with females because I just don't know they like or how their mind works and this leads me to crashing and burning because I can't even keep a conversation with females.
And I think that about sums what I'm doing here, and now I'll go back to lurking this forum and reading up on some PUA books.
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