Hi,
Just signed up for the forums.
Im one of the guys who is probably in the 8% of guys who are "sensitive".
I have kinda learned what worked in the past by myself but havent been in..
The game for years.
I fall into the being the nice guy trap,take rejection really hard,etc
How does someone keep emotions in check?
I want to be the one with the power.
alot of guys have been waiting for that girl to email,call and had women play with..
Our heads.How do you get the upper hand??

Hey man I am sorta in the same boat as you..I have never really been rejected as I do not play the game a ton..I have always been finding one girl at a time type of thing and then usually lead to a long relationship...

But now I am trying to start this too, and I too am somewhat sensitive. I think you just gotta look at it this way, if you never talked to the girl its a loss, if you tried and lost o well you gave it a shot, and if you tried and got something out of it, then power to you...I think we worry to much about getting rejected but truly by never talking to the girl you are rejecting yourself already.

We are all sensitive and fragile. At least emotional, we all get hurt, we are all living breathing mortal little fluffy softies deep down inside. We do react differently to different types of stimuli. I pity the people who arent strong enough to admit that they have feelings.

We are all sensitive... We just hide it behind different amounts of bullshit.

Being sensitive is a big advantage. Most guys think along the "Ugh, woman- me want sex.... It no work, neg target more."

You've got the ability to *actually* connect with girls on the emotional level. Women are emotional creatures, and even if the alpha male characteristics are attractive, let's not forget that they are genetically programmed to seek a good father for their babies.

Sensitive guys make great fathers.

Read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" to introduce yourself to female vs. male behavior, and work to improve your emotional abilities along side your other PUA skills.

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