hi i need a few tips on how to approach girls and what topics to talk to them about, i like a specific girl but we are friends and need tips on how to go to next level

This is called "one-itis". An AFC who doesn't realize he's an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) will never understand why nobody can answer this question for him or why he will never be able to get this woman with his current mindset. First, you have to realize that if you're thinking this way, you will always be an AFC and will almost always fail with women (you're only sucesses coming from luck - hence, the term "getting lucky" which is used often by AFC types). Here's why you can't win over this woman: you don't yet know how to go out and get 10 more desireable women in a short amount of time. If you DID know how to do that, you would not be obsessed with getting this one woman and you would already know how to answer your own question. Why? Think about it. If you could go out and have 10 (or more) women who are smarter, nicer, more beautiful, and more exciting than the one you are obsessing about, how important do you think she would be to you? You see, you can't just go from being an AFC to PUA (Pick-up Artist) without a certain understanding. You have to first admit to yourself that you're an AFC and get into recovery mode, becoming an RAFC (Recovering AFC). Learn to stop thinking like an AFC and the road to becoming a PUA will be clear. Once that road is clear, you will begin to understand the answer to this question. The reason this question is so difficult for an AFC to grasp is that truly understanding the answer is an epiphany.

Kenne001, do you think you have a "full-on" oneitis or do just dig your friend a little more than usual? See, my Oneitis absolutely kicked my ass (emotionally, not literally) when I found out she was moving in with another guy. It was particularly cutting as she was single some months before, I didn't have the skill/nerve to start a relationship with her, so an average chump (not a frustrated one though!!) got lucky, as sometimes happens. contrast this with another girl I liked, and had a Pseudooneitis for (mostly because no other pretty girls were in my life at the time). it took one trip to europe and i was over her!! Truth is the former girl has now forced me to get into game, I wasn't willing to feel that bad again. Oneitis still affects PUAs, its just that you have better mechanisms to deal with the situation. check out AFC Adam and MR M talking about it on youtube (can't post the link as I've not posted enough on here yet). good luck my friend.