| Damn man, I was in the same boat last year, moved back to the states, i was 28, no social circle at all. Luckily I'm going to school so that's helped a lot, maybe you could take some courses? Do this:
Take a class in something, cooking, painting, w/e
Sign up with United Way and volunteer at all the different things and find one with the most women, I did the homeless, Habitat for Humanity, retirement home etc. Habitat is good on saturdays, most women, and retirement home has lots of cute nurses.
Go out Mon-Thursday. Not sure what your schedule is like, but keep in mind, in my experience, weekend bitch shields are just insane. Go out M-Th while its not busy and get to know bouncers/waitresses/servers. And introduce yourself. Build up a social circle as best you can, but remember, baby steps. You'll find that many people you meet are actually workers from other bars, which is even better. Don't try too hard, don't get too drunk, and don't forget: YOU'RE THE MAN
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