Hi everyone, my name is miss_k and I'm from Washington DC. I realize there's been an influx of women..so I'm sorry for contributing to that

I'm actually not really new to the game, I've also been very fascinated by gender psychology and by people who develop social skills. I initially read up on "the game" and decided that it made sense. I even stole a few routines for myself and it worked wonderfully, to be honest (I think it was just the added self confidence and realization how visual men are more than anything). I dropped all the deadbeats in my life and found a great guy who eventually became my boyfriend. We had 7 wonderful months together. Month 8 was awful and we broke up a few weeks ago. Now I'm back on the market, and determined to have more success with my new prospects, but honestly, I feel a little weird and rusty, since I'm use to chasing guys away (I really didn't want anyone else other than my bf) rather than attracting them. I've spent a little time surfing the forum and see that there is some great female advice here, so I decided to join.

For the most part, I do for the most part agree with a lot of things said here.

In fact, when I started dating my boyfriend, I bought him a copy of the mystery method because I was getting turned off by his constant emotional availability and neediness and I couldn't think of a more gentler way to telling him that! He didn't get it.. he looked at the book, then he play slapped me and said "See, I don't need a book to teach me how to be an asshole". He did read the book and the game and although he never took it seriously, he did overdramatize a lot of the routines as joke to tease me..so we ended up having a great time anyway. But over time his sense of humor, assertiveness, and attractiveness (to me) increased so I think it did influence him in a positive manner. So yay for "the game".

I guess that was the long version. The short version: Hi

Before you start posting on the forum.

We need to identify you as actually being female.


Feel free to PM me the pictures.




Welcome on board.

Oooh.. a hidden female section! What a great idea!

Hey there missk, welcome to the forum! I am the the girl who goes to school in DC (as Hobbit stated above). I look forward to chatting with you in the future. Again, welcome.

~B

heyy missk welcome. im another female on this site often. never posted before though usually just come on here for a good read/giggle

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sparrow

Welcome to the forums!

Its great to have some female perspectives on the things we try to achieve here as it can only aid our understanding and techniques. Also seems like your ex might have took it seriously but just didn't like admiting so!

welcome again! There are a lot of useful things here for women--I think sometimes guys think girls read this just so they can defend themselves against pua tactics. Quite the contrary--I found that I understand and am sympathetic to guys more, and some of the attitude changes and Inner Game things have helped me tremedously in my work environment.

And hey, if there's a girls' forum, I want in too please

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The above is a woman's POV; may or may not represent the rest of my gender

Hi.

Good for you that the game works *oohh goood for you*. Anyway yeah it does for woman too. 2 female friends of mine are insecure to a level I'd say *rock bottom and still digging*. Without mentioning the game I thaught them some basics, some simple routines and just told them some ways how you can also look at male-female interaction.

It worked. One has a boyfriend now and the others self-esteem grew rapidly leaving her with some guys who want her now.

So yeah it's good for all of us.

Welcome aboard!

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...