Near Boston, actually, but still Red Sox Nation.

I'll try to keep this short. I don't think of myself as a natural like people here use it - actually far from it - but the people around me seem to think I am. The thing is, of all the women I've known and/or slept with, I've only actually asked out two of them. This makes me a very bad pick up artist because I've never really gotten practice picking up.

That's the reason I'm here. Whenever I put actual thought into my "game", or whatever it is that I'm doing could be called, and try to change it in some different way, I totally drop the ball and screw everything up. Beyond that, though, I'd like to actually go and pick a girl I like and do what I do instead of just choosing from the ones that approach me. It expands my options, and I think any guy likes the idea of being able to make his own choice.

I also have a bit of approach anxiety, which makes no sense to me, but I'm working on it. From what I've read so far, it looks like there's a lot of people on here that know what they're doing, so I can only hope to learn from them.