| Hey guys, I am not the average AFC, but I am somewhat frustrated. I'm not a virgin, and I've had girls in my life before... however... recently I've come to realize just how terrible my skills with women are.
I've been watching a ton of clips by Mystery and Style on Youtube and Google videos. Although I hold an advanced degree in clinical psychology (Master's), the material that I've gleaned thus far from the PUA community has blown my mind.
Tonight I went out to a bar to test some of these new ideas out... problem is, I am a bit of a coward. I walked into the bar, looked around, and there were almost NO girls in there. So I wasn't sure what to do. I went to the bathroom, then came back out a minute later or so... again, kinda paralyzed by the fact that there were all these guys in the bar, and only a few girls. So, I just went a got a Mike's Hard Lemonade. Sat there for a while, watching sports on the TV. Every once in a while, I leaned back in my chair, to scope out the bar... but almost nothing had changed. I just didn't know what to do, and was a little intimidated by the whole experience. Eventually I left without having approached a set... but I was a little proud of myself for even walking into a bar. I could count the amount of times I've been to a bar on one hand. For some reason, it's kinda intimidating to me.
What I'd really like is to connect with a PUA in my area who has some experience and is willing to take me on as his wing. I live in the Boise area of Idaho. And for those who may be wondering- Boise is a pretty urban area.
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