Hey,

I just found out about the community and the reason why I joined is basically, that a (wonderful, but tough) one year relationship just ended after my girlfriend suddenly considered me as not good enough anymore.
Now one year might be not as long but it is sure as hell long enough to ruin my social skills.
I was a very open and fun guy and me and a friend used to made a game out of picking up women when we went clubbing.
Now all this is gone, I invested too much time into her during my relationship and abandoned the rest of my social life.
Im young and I made this mistake.
Now I learned from it and I have to stand up again.
I hope this community will help me on my path.
Thx,

Benares

Welcome,

i was in the same boat as you, 2 year relationship with a girl. found the game while i was in the relationship but she decided that the book would corrupt me so i only read half. now im here eating away at any and al info i can. making progress too,

hope to see u around, im one of te regulars in chat so come have avisit sometime.

Hank

Welcome Benares!
Look around, there is a lot of useful information. Also, as Hank mentioned feel free to join the chat whenever you have a quick question

Enjoy
Jez

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“A man is but the product of his thoughts what he thinks, he becomes.”

Thx guys! I will slowly find my way through the community and I want to become a part of it.

I realized that girls are like parasites. When they "love" you, you are in the state of being useful for them in one way or another. Once this energy is drained they let you fall like a garbage bag and move on to the next energy source quicker than you can get your stuff from their apartment.

I was probably the most romantic guy on this planet. I was nice.

But nice is not sexy or attractive. Nice is a nice feature but nothing more.

slow down
very few people in the pua community think of girls as "parasites"
A phasre I hear a lot, and am fond of, is Leave people in a better state than you found them

anyway all the best
and "Gambler's Book" up there to the right is well worth a read to begin with (the add for it is always there when I go on the site anyway)

Hope you get the best form the community