I have never been bad with women however i have never been good on occasions i settled for what im given. i bought the game by neil strauss and it was brilliant the advice is great.

However i have developed one itis for a girl and recently told her how i felt i think i went about it in the wrong way and the reaction was not what i had hoped however it wasnt a no( confusing i no but bare with me). Basically we wer out clubbing with friends and we went to request a song, i pulled her to one side and said this may seem really obvious to you but i really like you her reply was... if you had told me a week earlier things would have been different but im meeting someone and im not the kind of person to go behind peoples back. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO MAKE OF THIS

I have been on website trying to find a solution. Also i bought rules of the game but i decided not to start reading it yet as im going to try and win her over myself.

I came across fractionation and am enquiring for any infomation anyone has and examples of this method? cheers

Pube

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WE NEED A SEPARATE FORUM FOR ONE-ITIS

to be totally honest it looks like the window of opportunity is closing rapidly or has closed on u my friend. dont rush into this. you'll crash and burn like i've done many a time with women i actually liked. find out the situation with this other man. if its something serious, if so, i dont do breakups. but if not, then were still good! keep going on with her but less frequently, throw her on the back burner so to speak. go for the jealousy angle too, take out some other women next time your with her.

best advice i've ever gotten with one-itis, "go out, meet 10 more women, and actually get to know them, and then see if your still stuck on the same girl. if so, do it again!"

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luv the username.

Forget her man. Focus on improving your overall game and meet new girls. It'll take some time but you'll get there.

And NEVER tell a girl that you have feelings for her

yeah i dont usually tell a girl i like her, but it had been doing my head in for weeks!!!! and my friends literally wouldnt shut up untill i told her.

Im glad i did it but in the same breath wish i had done it 110% different, im goin round to her house in a few days im just gona play a few of the tests and at the end say something like... the balls in your court now theres no way im gona continue chasing after putting myself out there like that but ill leave you with this...having me in your life ( not a text here and there i mean a big part of your life) will be the best thing you ever do trust me on that! i think that will work well...any feedback dudes

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It might just be me but you sound too needy and/ or bitchy. I don't wanna sound like a douche or anything but you gotta man up and not give a fuck about what she thinks

dont tell her the balls in her court! tell her your over her ass and uve moved on. she cant have u anymore.

dont play the desperate "I NEED YOU" role.

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cheers i think your right had a major rethink on how im going to play it

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np man. need any more help feel free to PM me

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