I'm sure this topic has been discussed on several different occasion. Unfortunately, I'm new and don't know how to search for the topic. Anyway, this is a problem I've had for years. I'd be minding my own business and notice a girl showing interest in me. When this happens, I lose the control I had (or thought I had). I become interested and act like it. Apparently, the challenge is now over and she "moves on". I'm aware of "the game" and how it works, I just can't play it. If I like someone they know it. If I don't like you, you'll know it. I'll ignore you, not return your texts/calls, blowing you off. All of these are what I need to do if I want to attract someone. But you know what? If I'm doing this, I DON'T LIKE YOU!!! (<frustration)
So, my recent mess. I started talking to this little HB and she's shown plenty off IOIs. A week ago Sunday, we went to the beach, had a great time, kiss-close in the water until we got a mouthful of salt water. The night after she invited me out to a club. After close, her friend wanted to hangout w/ some guys. She told me she wanted to come home w/ me, but had to drive her friend's car, bc the friend was drunk. I followed, bc lil HB wasn't much better off.
So, I eventually pick up lil HB and take her to my place. We fooled around a little, but nothing further. Found out the dam broke and she was having the monthly blood flood.... figures. That was the last time I saw her. We text from time to time... her usually first. I try to get her to hangout, bc I like this girl. But there's always an excuse.... most seem pretty valid.

What do I do? Our communication has been dwindled to text only for the last week.