Hey guys im dom, 20 year old law student from southampton england. Long story short being a student im dead broke(obviously) and unfortunately next to usless with women. I now decided to do something about it seeing as the normal approach of just being nice and friendly pretty much never work for me. I dug through the internet to help myslef become better at this aspect of life and came across this site it seemd like a good starting point.

My short story cut long...

Some of my problems are that I had a kind of a wierd childhood, coming here at age 10 as an imigrant having to fend for my self with no language what so ever being tossed into the public school system, into the worst school in the city, and no one to turn to as my parents were the same, had to fend for my family too at age 10 and a half (being the only one who could communicate in english) didint really have much of a childhood seeing as had to make sure all the bills were paid properly... Had to grow up fast, which meant I could never relate to the children at school. This made me a bit of an outcast, being a geek and on the chubby side and racial bullying didint help much either, neither did the fact that I had to live with a bunch of crazy violent people who had fights at the house all the time wen drunk. I could not get the kind of social skills which most people get naturally just by growing up , all of this is something which im still struggling with to this day to a small degree.

Things started to improve slightly at college as it was a bit of a fresh start kind of a totally new begging where I had to start learning some kind of sociall skills from scratch. I finally came to university which was a way to start fresh and re-invent myself. Still even though I have had some great great improvement with my inner self there is still a shit load of work i need to do. I have been going to the gym regullary now for a good 8 months and my slef counciense is plummettting and now at a level where I have learned to be a confident person who can pretty damm well stand up for himself. The only thing lacking now is my inability to be able to get anywhere with women, and i mean women that I want.

So my new friends i ask for guidence in this path and to help me to become what I know I can become with enough pracice and training.

see you guys on the forum

regards dom

P.S. if there is anyone from round south that is up for meeting, goin out, and gettiing some practice, or giving me some pointers let me know.

Welcome along mate!

All the best