Hey guys, just wanted to say hi, just a short story of why I decided to sign up.

I've always been a pretty attractive guy, but when I was younger, I was a bit of a podge and all the girls would talk to me, but nothing would happen. So I was always the nice guy chubby guy the girls would have a joke with, while they went off with the "tossers" as I thought.

So this built up an anxiety with women and me, so much so I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 21, and didn't kiss a girl until about, 2 months prior.

Although as I grew older, I thinned out, sorted out my hair, clothes etc and I look half decent. And started going out and meeting people in my town, but my attitude was, I'm not getting with you, you're not good enough for my virginity. So I had a long list of female mates, who were kept at arms length, which probably, un-knowingly to me at the time, built attraction.

So, finally, I kissed this girl I'd been mates with for over a year, and a few months later, lost my virginity in a 3 some with 2 girls, but I only had sex with the one.

And up to this day, I've counted from May last year until today, I've kissed/slept with/dated 64 women, either one or the other, or all 3.

So my problem now isn’t that I cant get laid, it's that I can't find a girl I want, I'm not really into seeing lots of girls etc, but its necessary to find someone you like in the end.

So anyway, I found out about PU about 2 months ago, when I was visiting London, and met a female friend I know off the net HB 9, and she told me about the Game, I bought it, but I didn’t bother to read it, as I don’t like books if I'm honest. So I just looked around the net and found things out for myself. Her ex uses it, and she said she’s watched him go up to girls and get there numbers easy. So it gained my interest.

So after looking around I've realised my problem isn’t abundance, rapport, or the ability to sexually escalate. I've realised it’s always been my fear of being "that sleazy guy" who I see out every time I go out.

So much so, I'd guess I've been out clubbing about 30 times in the past year and a bit, and only one girl has come up to me to talk, she had a boyfriend. I've approached 4 girls, 3 blew me out on approach, probably because I went in thinking they would, and the other one talked willingly, and I kissed her hand as I left.

So yeah, I'm probably here to work on my confidence with girls, and my paranoia about coming off like a sleaze.

It's a very long intro I know, but ho hum, there you go