Hey everyone. I'm a bit new to the site but not completely new to the game. I thought I'd introduce myself. I also thought I should tell my story so to speak. I'm assuming it's a bit like that of most people on here. I used to just go through life and not really pay attention to how I acted around women. Basically, I thought if I'd be myself and just treated people well and was a decent guy that it would just take care of itself. For the most part when making friends with other guys that is how it works. Guys are pretty accepting.
Anyhow, I believed all of that. Then after time, I started to see how women would put me in the friend zone or would consistently pick a douchebag guy over me. More often than not I was better looking than the guys they'd pick and in almost every situation I was actually the better catch. Leave it to a woman to use no logic.
Around the time I reached my breaking point, I had spotted a few sites online that related to all of this. I must say that they helped tremendously. I don't think a guy has to change all that much to make a big difference in his abilities. I've very much been cured of "Oneitis" and have much more insight than I once had.
I think that I still have plenty to learn. I think that I do have some advice to contribute as well so here I am.