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I got interested in game and wanted to know more after the first time i got played by a girl. I was in 8th grade and i was completely infatuated by her. She broke my heart into a bunch of bit size pieces. I've always been intelligent and introverted. I tried to understand how she had to much power over me on my own. I didn't have any training or father figures that were willing to teach me the ways of courtship. So i stumbled on blindly for the next 9-10 years. I learned only from trial and error.
My first introduction to PU was in a book called "48 Laws of Power" and then "Art of Seduction." Some of the methods i had naturally just from learning from my mistakes. My game was decent at best. Over the years I've gotten away with alot of things others would not have just because of my looks.
But, I realized that my conquests have been mostly luck, circumstance, or just because I'm an attractive guy and those women wanted to be with me because they thought i was hot. I have not been introduced to "Solid Game" until recently. I watched the two seasons of "The Pickup Artist" and I knew I had to get involved because i was single again. I am(or was) the kind of guy to get a hot girl in a relationship and have sex with her for as long as I can. Sometimes 3 Months and some have lasted as long as 3 years.
Being single again I wasn't going to mope around like I've seen myself do in the past. I immediately jumped back into my normal game and realized i need a lot of work. i don't have AA so much. but once i approach my game is weak.
After watching "The PUA" I Read MM and I'm now reading The Game. My Game has improved by a 1000x whatever i thought it might have been before and i don't even have very much experience.
***I'm writing this from work. I took a break to go outside to smoke a cigarette and number closed a 6 while i was out there(no bullshit)***
I swear I feel like a shark swimming around a bunch of smaller fish. I'm VERY motivated because the woman i believed i was going to marry and have kids with dumped me about 2 months ago. since that day I've been on a rampage. I've only been actively using the MM for a few weeks though. there's a fire under my ass to pick up as many women as humanly possible. I've never been this motivated about anything in a long time.
i don't know what my goals are. I've never been good at making goals.
but what i do know, is that I've been trying to teach my friends The Art of PU for the past couple weeks as well. mainly, so i have some competent wings in the field and because i know they will benefit from this just like i have in this short amount of time. but, i realized last night that i cannot teach something to someone who is not willing or motivated to learn. also, in order to continue on my path i need to meet like minded individuals.
when, i tell my friends:
u need to work on your frame
what kind of opener are u gonna use
let's practice indirect openers
occupy the obstacle(s)
what's ur canned material?
you have to act like the alpha male
bro, stop acting like an AFC
ETC.
they have no idea what I'm talking about. also, the one's I've tried to teach to possibly be my future wings are unmotivated, unwilling to learn, not even trying to approach. i went out last night and i felt like my boys were just expecting me to do all the work. which i don't mind doing. it's just i run game and i get laid not them. just hanging out with someone running game isn't going to get them laid. or get them ladies.
although i did pull a 3 set and there were 3 of us. i already know what's going to happen. neither of them number closed. one of them gave their girl his own number. he didn't show any real game so it's going to be a flaky number. but it makes me sad and brings me down listening to their AFC bullshit. but I'm getting into something that is better for another forum topic. btw, last night i kiss closed(w/ her number) and i don't even give a shit about the girl. i really have no intention of calling or fucking her. but today i feel better than i have felt in years. i showed solid game even though i could definitely use some work.
I'm not the kind of guy that writes on forums. i never have and i can't guarantee i will stay consistent here. but, i will say that i am looking for some locals that might be interested in doing some educational sarging. i don't expect anyone to actually read this long winded psycho babble. but i have to admit i do feel better writing it : )
I'll do my best to describe in detail what strategies i use and my failures especially when i believe it might be a learning experience for someone else that might read it. I'm also looking forward to reading some of the other PUA's post.
Love,
T-Bag
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How about if I wait six weeks to call. I could tell her I found her number while I was cleaning out my wallet, I can't remember where we met. I'll ask her what she looks like and then I'll ask her if we Fucked. How about that? Would that be money?
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