Yeah that's my opinnion aswell..

Hiya, I'm a 20-year old good looking guy from Helsinki, Finland. I'm a guy that has a lot of connections and a lot of friends aswell, both male and female.

When younger all the girls thought of me as a player since I bounced from girl to girl and everyone knew me, well that still didn't stop me from getting girls, even with that "bad" reputation.

Well as the years have gone by, I've noticed that picking up really quality chicks, is harder. Since it's not only the looks that count know and the "sweet talking". You actually need to put an effort into it.

But the thing is, I actually always skip the 10's and go straight for the 6-8's and they seem really easy. I've always been negging the girls and they always say "man you are mean" but they really like it, they get crazy when someone isn't telling them how hot they are or how sweet they seem.

I was travelling through europe last summer and I read The Game book and got so into it, that I also bought The Art of Seduction. And I've been scorlling thru it from time to time, but haven't really mastered anything what it says. The funny thing is that I don't have a game plan when I go into a set, or when I approach a girl. No thought's, no nothing. Just go. If I get it, I get it, if not I bail and try something else on her later, try negging while already talking with some other girls.

The most funny part is for me that I understand when I get home from the club that hey, I actually used methods that I've also seen Mystery and Style use for example. I've been using them all the time, but I've just been using them already before I read any books. It was my natural game, so it's hard for me to implement the style that they have, since they have so much more than what I do, since I stick to the same things all the time nad don't really talk as much as they do. I don't stick to talking for 30min without getting any IOI's. I don't want to waste that much time on it. And I don't really look at the IOI's which I probably should.

I really should learn how to open big sets of 10's and sets with guys without knowing any of them. Gaming girls that I know or are friends of my friends, that 's just plain stealing candy from small children, really easy. You are already prepicked since you're a friend of the others. Hopefully I can find out some good openers and then translate them into finnish from here.

Also a thing that I reallly need to find is contacts around the world. Because I love to travel (just need money for it tho hehe) and I'm thinking of moving to NYC in 2010 but I don't know anyone there! And I'm really afraid of losing my social status that I have here to nada. Contact me if you want to talk more! Im open for anything!

Peace, S.