So I'm completely new to this site, but familiar with the PUA. I read Neil Strauss' book and was floored at how good it was. It opened me up to great new world I never knew existed. Unfortunately, that was all lost when I dated a beautiful girl who I thought I was going to marry. She ended up leaving me and taking every inch of confidence I had, along with all of my material. She left me a broken 28 yr old man. So now, I am back in the game trying to regain my old form. It should not take long, seeing as though we only dated for a year and have been broken up now for 2 months. I live in NY now and am ready to conquer. I still have moments of confidence in my game, and have been told I am very good looking, so I have gone on some dates here and there that eventually led to an F close. However, these women have approached me. I have not regained the confidence to approach them. Any advice, new openers, etc. will be greatly appreciated.